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Orlando Made Me More “Out and Proud” Than Ever

Orlando Made Me More “Out and Proud” Than Ever

Jun 23, 2016

I kept asking myself why the Orlando Shooting affected me so much. It took me a few days, but I finally realized why. When 9/11 happened, it really didn’t do much to me. I was in 6th grade and only 11 years old. It didn’t make sense to me, I couldn’t really understand it, and I had only been on a plane once before. Yet, adults all over the world were...

7 Online Dating Tips (from a guy who’s never had a boyfriend)

7 Online Dating Tips (from a guy who’s never had a boyfriend)

Mar 30, 2016

The online dating world is rough. Dating in general is rough. You have a lot to compete with and who knows what the other person’s intentions are. I’ve never had a boyfriend (full disclosure, and all that), and it isn’t for the lack of trying. I do live on dating apps however, and go on quite a few dates. Here are the tips I have learned that work to at...

I Don’t Want Your Cake After All

I Don’t Want Your Cake After All

Oct 30, 2015

When it comes time to get married, I’m going to have to shop around for wedding cakes. I can’t just go to the nearest bakery and commission one. It will have to be specially crafted so that I can eat it and enjoy it. Trust me, on my wedding day I will not be skimpy out on cake, and plan to shove some straight into my husband’s face. Luckily for me, I...

Dear Guys, These Aren’t the Droids You’re Looking For

Dear Guys, These Aren’t the Droids You’re Looking For

Oct 6, 2015

“Oh look, the cute guy messaged me first!” I exclaim. “Let me see.” My friends reply. “Never mind, he’s not my type.” “How do you know?” “He’s a ‘no fats, fems, blacks, Asians, Caucasians with brown eyes, guys who don’t like the color pink, guys who onlydrink  whiskey, and guys who breathe’ kind of guy.” Haven’t we all been on the receiving end of this? I know...

Dear Guys: My Real Online Dating Profile

Dear Guys: My Real Online Dating Profile

Sep 25, 2015

Dear Guys, Thanks to social media, we can now condense anything we want to into 140 characters. If you can’t, then you really can’t stay relevant. This idea overflows into the online dating profile. How do we capture someone’s attention in a short span but also try to convey a little bit about what we are? Some of us don’t even try, there is nothing in the...

Dear Guys, If you want it to work, you gotta stick around

Dear Guys, If you want it to work, you gotta stick around

Sep 11, 2015

D ear Guys, You know who you are: the ones that I see as potential boyfriend material. I will always be guarded around you. Maybe even after we get married. That’s just who I am. I’m mixed up and complicated. Just like you, when you’re on Grindr and you say you want to settle down, but jump into the first guys pants that you can.  Honestly, I don’t...